May 31, 2023

When does our rage feel compelling, not repelling?

After Part 3 of the podcast series went live II received messages like this:

“Hearing this unlocked something in me…”

“You awoke an anger inside of me I’ve been swallowing, and made it feel okay to let it out…”

“This was a holy rage and it was exciting,...

May 29, 2023

You requested this episode, submitting follow-up Q’s you had after listening to parts 1-3.

Today I’m answering your Q’s including:

• How do you move on after that level of betrayal?
• How many books are ghostwritten?
• Have you heard from anyone involved since it went live?
  

I also talk about how to:

• Know when...

May 24, 2023

You’ve known gaslighting, rage at disorganization or disrespect, or a traumatic work/community experience.

Today I’ll share 7 action ideas to help us protect ourselves in the present or future, those in our inner circle, and more broadly our culture. Use this cheat sheet to journal, discuss, and reflect what...

May 17, 2023

I want to say it gets better. 

In life I’ve really found that to be true. In romantic relationships, homes, friends, employees.

But sometimes it gets worse first.

How do you know when it’s time to walk away from a dream? From everything you’ve invested, with nothing–less than nothing, far far less than what you...

May 10, 2023

In 2011 I started a business as a stylist. I’d moved to New York City for my career in theater after a Broadway tour, Radio City Rockettes, and all that jazz.

[The below timeline is not covered in the episode and included here for backstory.]

In 2014 a friend who worked at a top publisher told me that my style...